An Appeal To Women

AN APPEAL TO WOMEN

Let's get back to this more modest way of life

by Mia

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Ladies, it is not men who are calling on us to be modest. The Bible is calling on us—not just in our manner of dress, but in our spirit, our acts, our words, and our character.

On a side note, if your husband is calling on you to be modest, you should do so out of respect for him.

People interpret 1 Timothy 2: 9-10 different ways. I’ve talked to so many women who say that they want to stay home, but they “need” to work, and yet many of them don’t. They just need to have the big house, the fancy car, and the brand name attire. I’d say this most certainly applies to them as much as any woman who shows too much skin.

I also believe that modesty of character is just as important as all of the above. I think of the woman who’s drunk and falling all over herself and random men at the bar when I read this verse. She’s loud and obnoxious, that’s how she gets attention—not through her intellect, her kindness, or her graciousness.

Feminism has taught women to be controlling, loud, and domineering. It has taught them that liberation is answering to no man. There are a lot of women who call themselves conservatives, but the minute a man asserts his authority, they automatically default to a feminist position.

I don’t take orders from any man who isn’t my husband, however I recognize that men are meant to lead us. If good men lead, then good women will naturally follow.

For me, being a conservative woman is more than favoring lower taxes and a small government (which we don’t get anyway), it’s a lifestyle. When I say that we have gender roles in my marriage, I don’t simply mean that my husband takes out the trash and I cook. I mean that he drives the car when we are going somewhere together. I mean that he works as much as he has to, so that I can stay home and take care of our children. I help them with their school work, I cook dinner every night, I do everyone’s laundry, I keep the house clean, I decorate it, I bake, I garden—I basically keep our home looking presentable, while my husband makes sure it functions properly. He is the leader and I am the nurturer in our home.

Some women will say that this sounds boring and meaningless, but I don’t need the “excitement” of a career. My family needs me and my children always have someone who’s there for them. They know this, my husband knows this, and it gives us all peace of mind.

No full-time job or the salary attached to it is worth being a part-time mother. If women could get over their selfish need to lead and control the men in their lives, maybe we could somehow get back to this more modest way of life. //

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